Overpopulation, Reincarnation, Sarcasm, and More

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Rachel shares what happened on her recent speaking and outreach tour in Oregon and Pennsylvania, which leads into a quick impromptu discussion on which people are best to invest the most energy into talking to during outreach, the hardcore pro-choice people or people in the middle.

Then the team responds to listener mail:

  • 22:14: “Why do you sometimes describe your view that embryos are persons as a ‘really weird view’? Is this disingenuous?”
  • 27:41: “How do you respond to overpopulation?”
  • 35:25: “How do you respond to people who are pro-choice because they believe in reincarnation, therefore abortion is no big deal because the babies are just reincarnated somewhere else?”
  • 45:12: “I have a problem with sarcasm. Do you have any tips for me?”

Email us at info@equalrightsinstitute.com to share your weirdest pro-choice arguments you’ve heard! We’d love to cover them in a future episode.

The audio is a little wonky in this episode. We got some new microphone processors that should improve the audio quality, but when we went to edit we realized that we didn’t have all the settings dialed in quite right, so there was a lot of us bleeding into each other’s mics. We made it a lot better through mixing, but it’s still not great. We should have this working better next episode.

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Practical Tips for Talking with Post-Abortive Women

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Rachel interviews Lori Navrodtzke, a PRC counselor and Justice For All volunteer, about how to dialogue with people about abortion if they’ve already had one.

Topics Covered:

  • What is in a post-abortive woman’s mind when she approaches a pro-life outreach table on campus?
  • What are some signals that pro-life advocates should keep an eye out for, that might be a clue that they’re talking to a post-abortive woman?
  • Are there things we should not say or directly ask?
  • How should you proceed if you ask someone if they’ve had an abortion and they say no, but you think that they’re not being honest about that?
  • A reminder that some post-abortive women don’t regret abortion, at least not yet.
  • If they do disclose their abortion history, what sorts of things should we be doing, especially for those of us who aren’t trained counselors?

Related Resources:

  • Equipped for Life Course – Module 9: Talking to Abortion-Minded and Post-Abortive People – Showing Compassion When the Rubber Meets the Road. Visit equippedcourse.com to learn more.

Photo Credit: Lori Navrodtzke talking to a pro-choice student at a Justice For All outreach at the University of North Texas in 2011. Photo owned by JFA and used with permission.

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How Josh Should Have Dealt with a Hostile Audience in Canada

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Josh shares what happened when he gave a pro-life speech at a high school in Canada last month where three angry pro-choice girls sat in the front row and dominated the Q&A session. You’ll hear how Josh actually handled it, as well as a discussion with Tim and Rachel about what Josh could have done better.

If you ever plan on giving pro-life speeches, this episode will be very practically helpful to you!

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Social Media Dialogue Part 6: 7 Final Practical Tips

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Josh, Tim, and Rachel finish their multi-part series on how to be an effective pro-life advocate on social media.

Here are the tips covered in this episode:
Practical Argumentation

  1. Use links sparingly. If your argument only works if they read a long article you link to, you’re doing it wrong. Summarize the thesis of what you’re linking to, and the link is to back you up or give them more info if they want it.
  2. Always cite neutral websites for sources.
  3. Know logical fallacies and cognitive biases so that you can recognize and respond to a logical fallacy (and not commit one yourself!).
  4. Stay factual. If you’re not sure, admit it. Use disclaimers like “It’s my understanding that…” instead of asserting ideas or facts you’re not sure about.
  5. Never claim research or studies have shown anything unless you are prepared to cite those sources.
  6. Not drowning them in text is a good goal to strive for unless you are telling a story for something like a thought experiment. They are more likely to actually read everything you are saying this way. If they are drowning you in text with many trains of thought running everywhere, perhaps remark that they are saying a lot at once and ask them which they would like a response to first.
  7. If someone crushes you under a wall of ranty text and you want to engage, feel free to pick one singular point and respond with only a line or two asking about it. There’s no rule saying you have to reply to every single point they make all at once.

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Social Media Dialogue Part 4: 12 More Practical Tips

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Josh, Tim, and Rachel continue a multi-part series on how to be an effective pro-life advocate on social media. In this episode they continue a series of 35 practical tips in five categories.

The episode begins with a brief discussion of Josh and Tim’s new kittens. If you want to skip this, the substantive content begins at 09:40.

Here are the tips covered in this episode:

Practical Lowering Defenses Moves

  1. Point out virtually every case of common ground.
  2. Do the “tell them what you don’t mean” thing more often on social media than in person due to it being easier for them to misunderstand, stew a bit, and then yell back an angry response or just leave, not giving you a chance to clarify.
  3. Consistently summarize the other person’s view or argument to them throughout the conversation. This assures the other person you’re taking them seriously as a human being and not some random name with a picture.
  4. Don’t forget to be relational when you talk about rape and other hard topics.
  5. Never (or rarely) use any language even bordering on profanity, caps, or anything remotely disrespectful like “baby killer”, “murderer”, etc.
  6. Use neutral terminology that the other side is comfortable with. 
  7. Never compare to Adolf Hitler, Dr. Mengele, Stalin, Pol Pot, the Holocaust, etc. That immediately ticks people off.
  8. Ask clarifying questions if you don’t understand; don’t assume.
  9. Point out when they teach you something.
  10. Like the other person’s comments when they’re being clear and charitable, not just when you agree with them.
  11. Don’t like or share inflammatory things.
  12. Sow intentional positive seeds with people you would hope to dialogue with one day.

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