Equal Rights Institute Began One Year Ago…

ERI 1 Year Anniversary

It was a year and a half ago that my brother Timothy spent a week with me in a small office dreaming up Equal Rights Institute. Six months later, a year ago today, I resigned from the organization I spent six years working for and began full-time work for ERI.

It was a scary time. For the first time in my life, I was completely responsible for raising the funds needed to not only accomplish our mission, but also to feed my family. It was also incredibly exciting. Timothy soon moved to Fresno so we could share an office and continue dreaming together, now with the ability to make our dreams a reality.

I quickly put together a Board of Directors and received assistance in filling out the necessary IRS paperwork. Even though the IRS was tending to take 6-24 months to approve pro-life organizations, we received our approval precisely one month after sending in the application!

We gave our first seminar to the staff of Students for Life of America, and a month later trained the pro-life club at Biola University. Our training materials were already quite a bit different from what we had previously taught, and our program continues to become more and more unique with each training we do. Tim and I regularly brainstorm in our office trying to solve problems, with the goal of helping pro-life people to be more persuasive when they dialogue with pro-choice people.

Debriefing with the wonderful staff of SFLA after our outreach in Washington, DC

Debriefing with the wonderful staff of SFLA after our outreach in Washington, DC

In September we hired Jacob Nels, who proved himself to be a natural member of the team right away. His wisdom and charitable attitude towards everyone around him, from both sides of the abortion debate, made him a great fit at Equal Rights Institute.

Jacob Nels talking to a student at CSU Bakersfield.

Jacob Nels talking to a student at CSU Bakersfield.

We were able to raise enough in those first months to focus on our mission, thanks in no small part to a generous grant we were given by the D. D. and Velma Davis Foundation. I always thought I would hate fundraising, but I actually don’t. I love sitting down with people and telling them about our vision of making the pro-life movement known by our love and thoughtfulness, and our strategy to accomplish that.

The following Spring we designed an outreach brochure from scratch and began using it in training seminars and outreaches in Bakersfield and Portland. We have a few minor tweaks to make and then we’ll put our brochure online for you to see.

Speaking in Canada.

Speaking in Canada.

Public speaking was one of the ways we spread our message from the very beginning. Since launching I have given 35 speeches to 9,500 people, in California, Oregon, Arizona, Iowa, Ohio, Virginia, Washington DC, and Canada!

We’ve posted 26 articles to our blog, which have been read by nearly 35,000 people at our website alone, and over 100,000 more people at LifeNews.com.

We have big plans for the rest of the year, which we’ll be announcing later this month.

I am so incredibly proud of what my team has accomplished in only one year. We weren’t content to merely fundraise and focus on the hundreds of tasks it takes to launch a non-profit organization. We worked on those while creating new material, and bringing that material to pro-lifers across North America. Thanks to being on campus with the students we’re training, we’re able to see firsthand that the arguments we teach and the practical dialogue tips we’re sharing with the pro-life movement makes a big difference in improving the productivity of dialogues about abortion.

Would you be willing to partner with us financially as we move forward with our vision of training pro-life advocates to persuade more pro-choice people to not kill their babies? As is the case with most non-profits, our funds are getting pretty tight as we begin the summer months. Your one-time or monthly tax-deductible gift of $25, $50, $100 or more would make a huge difference. It would get us to the point of being sustainable faster so that we can spend less of our summer fundraising and more of it producing training material that we can share with the pro-life movement. Thank you so much for your help.

Meet Our Newest Staff Member!

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We have a new staff member! We’re so delighted to introduce Kim Bagato to you, although if you’re in the Central California area, you may have already been blessed by Kim’s work at KRDU or Salt Magazine. Today is her first day at taking administrative tasks off of Josh Brahm’s plate so that he can focus on what he does best: growing the organization, leading the staff, speaking, writing and raising the funds we need to accomplish our goals.

Click here to learn more about Kim.

Top 5 ERI Articles of 2014

Yup, it’s that time of year where every blog does “top X posts of 2014,” so without further ado, here are the most visited articles I’ve published this year.

I created this list using the Google Analytics for my own site, instead of complicating the process by incorporating stats from LifeNews.com, where many of my articles are later republished.

My blog received over 71,000 unique pageviews from more than 28,000 unique people this year. That’s a 400% increase from last year, albeit the blog was only live since June, 2013.

I think I would have done even better if I had managed to stay consistent in the last half of this year, but successfully launching a national pro-life training organization and maintaining a consistent blog presence became mutually exclusive. Thanks for your patience with me as I temporarily slowed down my writing to make my dream organization become a reality.

On to the list!

E-mail concept on white background. Isolated 3D image#5: What to Say to Someone Who Says “I Wish I Had Been Aborted”

This was a response to a question from a reader and includes a story about a dialogue I had in front of Planned Parenthood. The thing I like most about this piece is the distinction between the suicidal-sounding version of this pro-choice statement, “I wish I had been aborted,” and the consistent version, “I wish my mom had had the right to abort me.” I believe the latter is what most pro-choice people mean when they say this, and clarifying what they actually mean will make a world of difference in whether you respond effectively or not.

#4: What Should You Say to a Woman Who is Happy That She Had an Abortion?

This one is a response to one of the most challenging things a pro-choice person can say to a pro-life advocate. I offer what I would say, as well as explain the right/wrong vs. wise/foolish distinction that may be helpful in that conversation.

#3: The Biology Professor Who Hated Our Outreach Exhibit

I was very surprised at how well this post did. I wasn’t very excited to write it. It was just another story from campus, and I wrote it at a time where I was more interested in making substantive points and not just telling stories. I didn’t do anything that unique or interesting (to me) in response to the hostile biology professor in the story, but a ton of people who don’t frequent my blog read this post. I suspect that some people who don’t frequent my blog clicked on it because they thought it would be a “pro-life smart guy makes a pro-choice guy look like an idiot” post, which it really wasn’t. They seem to have gotten sucked into it though because I saw a lot of comments online from people saying that want to learn how to talk about abortion this way, which was very gratifying.

#2: 4 Reasons Pro-Lifers Need to Stop Doing This

Ah, the infamous Fetus Tunnel Vision piece. This may be my favorite blog post I’ve ever written, because the content is very unique to something my brother Tim and I have talked about, and I think it’s very needed if our movement is going to show the world that we care about all people, and not just unborn babies. That gives you the credibility to talk to people who wouldn’t listen to certain other pro-life people.

There was a lot of debate regarding this topic, so I wrote two followup pieces answering the most common challenges.

I credit part of the success of this post to my friends at Students for Life of America who frequently tweet it to their followers and even discuss the topic in their trainings with college students across the country!

#1: Understanding What Richard Dawkins Actually Believes About Abortion and Down Syndrome

It was almost a tie for first place but my commentary on Richard Dawkins’ tweet about Down Syndrome was the most visited article from 2014. Tim and I worked really hard on this piece and watching the results the following day made for one of the most fulfilling days I’ve had since I launched Equal Rights Institute. I blogged about what happened here, including Richard Dawkins himself retweeting the article and several pro-choice people commenting that this was the most careful and rational piece they had seen from either side of the abortion debate regarding Dawkins’ tweet.

That’s the list! Thanks again for following my blog during the most exciting and most terrifying year of my life, and I’m truly humbled by the gracious feedback I’ve received from most of you.

For the rest of you, I’m looking forward to more open-minded dialogue about the philosophical issues surrounding abortion in the months to come. :)

Merry Christmas!

Brahm2014

We Had an Incredible Weekend with Students for Life of America

New-SFLA-LogoMy brother Tim and I just got back from Washington DC after spending two amazing days with the staff of Students for Life of America (SFLA).

Our objective was to bring their new Regional Coordinators through the brand new Equal Rights Institute seminar and follow that up with an outreach on the streets of D.C. This was a daunting task because Tim only got to Fresno a few weeks ago which didn’t give us very much time to create a seminar! We temporarily put our fundraising on hold and spent those two weeks brainstorming with a marker board and then separating to write out our material. We created more original content than I thought possible. Much of it will show up on this blog in future posts.

SFLA's Daniel DeFonce, Missy Martinez & Tina Whittington during our outreach. Photo courtesy of SFLA.

SFLA’s Daniel DeFonce, Missy Martinez & Tina Whittington during our outreach. Photo courtesy of SFLA.

 

Seeing my friends from SFLA again was wonderful. I seriously love these people, and they’re making an incredible contribution to the pro-life cause. We also got to meet their newest Regional Coordinators (RC’s). These are the staff who are paid full-time to drive in loops in various states to provide training, coaching and logistical support to SFLA college campus and high school clubs across various regions in the country. I’ve said before that I believe SFLA’s Regional Coordinators are some of the most strategically placed pro-life activists in the country, and working with them to reach the 8,000 actively pro-life college students in America has been a big part of Equal Rights Institute’s strategy from the beginning.

SFLA's R.J. McVeigh & Rebekah Chiew during our outreach. Photo courtesy of SFLA.

SFLA’s R.J. McVeigh & Rebekah Chiew during our outreach. Photo courtesy of SFLA.

 

The new R.C.’s are fantastic. They are passionate about learning what they need to effectively dialogue with pro-choice students, and to train their students to do the same. They did so well in our mentor groups during the seminar that we often had time for more advanced Q&A! After speaking to them about responding relationally to the question of rape before giving a philosophical response, we went to our groups to put the R.C.’s to the test. We got in their faces and yelled at them about being horrible human beings who want to force rape survivors to be pregnant. Every single one of them responded with love and concern for both rape survivors and the pro-choice person we were pretending to be.

SFLA's Missy Martinez and Casey Tesauro during our outreach. Photo courtesy of SFLA.

SFLA’s Missy Martinez and Casey Tesauro during our outreach. Photo courtesy of SFLA.

 

SFLA's Michele Hendrickson and Angela Erickson during our outreach. Photo courtesy of SFLA.

SFLA’s Michele Hendrickson and Angela Erickson during our outreach. Photo courtesy of SFLA.

The following morning we went to the Ballston Metro to talk to pro-choice people. Our goal was to get every R.C. into at least one conversation, and most of them had at least three before we were done!

More incredibly, while using the dialogue techniques we taught them the day before, they talked to four pro-choice people who became pro-life, and ten more who had major shifts in their thinking! It was a more successful outreach than I had even hoped for, especially for only having two hours to talk to people on the street!

It was wonderful to debrief with the staff afterwards and listen to their stories of the people they talked to. I also informed them that SFLA has agreed to have us mentor each of the RC’s on a one-to-one basis to continue their training. They were thrilled. As you can see from the picture below, we had a very lively debrief meeting!

Debriefing after our outreach. Photo courtesy of SFLA.

Debriefing after our outreach. Photo courtesy of SFLA.

 

We are so excited to be getting our pro-life dialogue techniques into the hands of the pro-life people that need them most: college students. Would you consider partnering with us to make that possible?