Pro-choice people often bring underlying assumptions to the table when discussing abortion. Most of the time, while these assumptions play an important part in how they justify their position, they won’t say them out loud and may not even be able to articulate them. If we don’t reveal and confront these hidden premises in our conversations about abortion, we have a much smaller chance of getting a pro-choice person to think differently about abortion.
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Seeking to understand the underlying beliefs pro-choice people have is necessary to change their minds, but it’s also a matter of intellectual virtue. Personally, I know when someone takes the time to understand my viewpoint better, even when they don’t agree with it, I feel seen and heard—and I, in turn, am more likely to extend grace and understanding to them during our conversation. Who wants to discuss a divisive topic with someone who isn’t even trying to understand your point of view? And when we accurately understand a pro-choice person’s core belief instead of mischaracterizing it out of ignorance (or assumptions on our part), we can more effectively share good pro-life arguments which address their beliefs instead of talking past or at them. And if we can do that, we have a better chance of changing their minds.
I want to outline a few common hidden premises of pro-choice arguments and show you how to recognize when they’re being used in a conversation. Then, I’ll offer ways to respond to what the pro-choice person actually thinks.
Underlying Assumptions Abound
There are many possible ideas which might be the foundation on which someone bases their pro-choice belief about abortion. Some people may be bringing multiple of these assumptions to the table. Another possibility is that your conversation with them is the first time they’ve been pushed to examine what, exactly, are their core beliefs on abortion. Here are some examples of underlying assumptions:
- Unborn humans are not biologically living human organisms.
- Unborn humans are biologically living organisms, but they don’t have value or are not a person.
- Unborn humans are persons, but they have less value and/or rights than the pregnant woman.
- A woman has complete bodily autonomy at all times, which includes the right to get an abortion at any time in pregnancy for whatever reason.
- A woman has the right to refuse the use of her body to any person for any reason, and abortion is a way to refuse use of her body.
- Access to abortion is the only way for women to have equality with men and to have complete control over their family planning goals.
- Every person should be free to make a decision which is in line with their personal moral views.
- Unborn humans are trespassers or aggressors, so abortion is a form of self-defense against an intruder.
Recognizing the Underlying Assumption
Even if they’re not explaining the basis of their statements about abortion, oftentimes pro-choice people will use words or phrases that can tip you off as to what premises might be just under the surface. I’m going to provide some real examples I have seen and heard from pro-choice people to show how a statement can indicate an underlying assumption.
Fetuses aren’t humans, so abortion is okay.
The denial of fetal personhood could be the assumption here. Many times people use the word “human” interchangeably with “person,” or to otherwise convey an idea of value. (Make sure they’re not denying biological humanity, just in case.)
Women aren’t hosts and shouldn’t be forced to use their body as life support if they don’t want to.
The use of “host” and “life support” to describe a pregnant woman could be how they think pro-lifers see pregnant women or may indicate how they view the human fetus. They might see the human fetus is an invader, a trespasser, or a parasite—a being that holds a woman hostage or directly harms her. “Force” often indicates a bodily rights assumption, as well. Since women have the right to do whatever they want with their bodies or at least deny the use of their bodies, not allowing her an abortion is “forcing” her to be pregnant.
Pursuing the Real Issue
Once you have an idea of the underlying assumption being brought into the argument, don’t be hesitant about turning the conversation to pursue that! Asking clarifying questions is key to having a productive conversation. You can’t just assume what their bedrock belief is, or you run the risk of ruining a chance at good conversation by making the other person feel maligned or ignored and making yourself look ignorant and rude.
In online conversation, trying to uncover someone’s underlying assumptions can be perceived negatively. In person, body language and tone of voice can convey your true interest in seeking deeper understanding, but those things are often lost in writing. Some extra attention to explaining what you are trying to do may be necessary. I have encountered people who assumed that my asking questions to gain an understanding of their views actually meant I was ignoring what they said or judging or shaming them.
Here’s some ways I might phrase a turn in conversation to pursue someone’s underlying assumptions:
- I want to be sure I understand what you mean before I respond to what you said. I don’t want to talk past you if I can clarify now.
- I want to better understand where you are coming from. Would you mind explaining that a bit more?
- Please correct me if I am wrong. How I understood what you said was…Is that what you meant, or am I on the wrong track?
Responding to the Root of the Difference
Once you’ve accurately characterized what the other person’s bedrock beliefs are, then you can respond with an argument addressing what they actually think. There are many good pro-life arguments, but the average pro-choice person hasn’t been exposed to them.
For example, for the person you’ve been talking to who you discovered believes human fetuses are biologically alive and are human organisms, but doesn’t think they are human persons, introduce them to the Equal Rights Argument. Likewise, if in response to your questions they’ve revealed that they believe in absolute bodily autonomy for women, getting them to see the extreme but logical outcomes of their viewpoint could help them reconsider their viewpoint.
We should not only address the pro-choice person’s underlying assumptions with strong pro-life arguments, but also present our arguments winningly. Organizations like ERI and Justice for All have a lot of resources which focus just as much on presentation of good pro-life arguments as they do on the arguments themselves (Don’t Be Weird is maybe my favorite tip ever).
Trying to figure out a person’s underlying assumptions about abortion is hard work! It takes time, patience, and mental and emotional energy. Humanizing those you disagree with can be difficult. The results are worth it, though—both for yourself and your conversation partner.
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