Should We Call ANYBODY “Pro-Abortion?”

I respond to a listener who asks if we should at least use the term “pro-abortion” when referring to extremists who injure or kill pro-life people.

This is my third post in a series that responds to follow-up questions about a recent discussion I led on Life Report about what terms to use in abortion dialogues. We focused most of the debate on the labels “pro-abortion” vs. “pro-choice.”

I was joined by Steve Wagner from Justice For All and Gabi Vehrs from the Fresno City College Students for Life club. We all agreed that pro-life advocates should generally use the term “pro-choice” when beginning a dialogue, even though many pro-life people see that as an inaccurate “weasel word.”

If you haven’t seen it yet, I’d encourage you to watch the entire discussion below or download the audio version here.

Here is one of the responses we got to the discussion, from someone named Ashlen:

Hey, I was watching this episode and I agreed with a lot of it. I usually use the word “pro-choice” when talking with people. I was wondering what you think of using “pro-abortion” in extreme cases, like the thing that happened a few weeks ago where all the topless women tried to break into the church in Argentina, or when some pro-choice people resort to injuring or killing pro-lifers. I know these instance are rare but when I do talk about them I usually refer to them as “pro-abortion.”

I know that as a pro-life person I don’t like when people describe those who kill abortionists and bomb clinics as “pro-life,” so I imagine that those who describe themselves as pro-choice also wouldn’t want these people referred to as “pro-choice.”

What do you think about using “pro-abortion” in the really extreme cases?

I don’t know enough about the motivations of the topless women in Argentina or other violent pro-choice people to label them “pro-abortion.” Perhaps those people are violently pro-abortion-choice. In other words, they might not think abortion is a good thing, but they believe it should be available so strongly that they violently act against churches or people they perceive as endangering that right.

If I could talk to one of the Argentinian protesters in an environment where she wasn’t spraypainting me, I would ask her a bunch of questions about her views, and use whatever label she preferred if there was no way to keep all the labels out of our conversation.

That way we could focus on the real issues: What is the moral status of the unborn? How should we treat them? Does a pregnant woman’s bodily rights supercede the rights of the unborn to live?

Is there anyone who is pro-abortion? Sure. I’ve heard people say that abortions should be forced on people in certain circumstances. I’ve heard people say that abortions should not be more rare but should happen more often, usually for economic reasons or overpopulation concerns. They are truly pro-abortion.

Would I call them that to their face? No, because I can’t think of a reason that calling them a label would help my conversation get to the real issues.

My answer is that yes, there are some truly “pro-abortion” people, although I think they are a narrow subset of pro-abortion-choice people, yet I can’t think of a single scenario where it would be beneficial for me to use the label “pro-abortion” in a conversation with them.

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Josh Brahm is the President of Equal Rights Institute, an organization that trains pro-life advocates to think clearly, reason honestly and argue persuasively.

Josh has worked in the pro-life movement since he was 18. A sought-after speaker, Josh has spoken for more than 23,000 people in six countries and in 22 of the 50 states.

Josh’s primary passion is helping pro-life people to be more persuasive when they communicate with pro-choice people. That means ditching faulty rhetoric and tactics and embracing arguments that hold up under philosophical scrutiny.

He has publicly debated leaders from Planned Parenthood, the National Abortion Rights Action League (NARAL), Georgians for Choice, and one of the leading abortion facilities in Atlanta.

Josh also wants to bring relational apologetics to the pro-life movement. “Some pro-choice people will not change their mind after one conversation on a college campus. Some of them will only change their mind after dozens of conversations with a person they trust in the context of friendship.”

Josh is formerly the host of a globally-heard podcast turned radio/TV show, Life Report. He now hosts the Equipped for Life Podcast. He’s also written dozens of articles for and the ERI blog.

He directed the first 40 Days for Life campaign in Fresno, resulting in up to 60 lives saved.

Josh has been happily married to his wife, Hannah, for 15 years. They have three sons, Noah, William, and Eli. They live in Charlotte, North Carolina.

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